Posts Tagged ‘Love’

• No Time For Sex? BIG Mistake. Huge.

  Date: 2010.04.06 | Category: Marriage, Relationships, Sexuality | Response: 1

  
  Not making great sex a priority is a big mistake many women make. When a woman is stressed-out or tired all of the time, she will not feel her desire to be sexually active. This is when sex becomes non-existent or relegated to her “to-do” list as another chore (to meet the needs of someone else). The longer a woman goes without having intimate relations, the more sexually shut down she becomes and the more distant her relationship becomes. Relationships thrive on the bonding, emotional intimacy, and validation that is afforded by great sex.

  This is why the lack of sexual fulfillment is the 2nd major cause for divorce and separation among couples (financial stress is #1). If you decide not care much about sexual fulfillment in your relationship, your relationship will surely suffer and this indifference may be the beginning of the end of it. Many times affairs happen when vulnerability (unmet needs) are met with opportunity. Make the choice to care about sexual fulfillment and safeguard your relationship as much as possible.

  If you’re a woman who is feeling slammed by the demands of daily life, listen up. It’s time to put yourself first. Really, your life is the way it is because you set it up that way. Take responsibility for your life and change what you want to change about it. Even small changes, like giving yourself permission to say “no”, or changing your attitude toward a daily task, can make a huge difference.

  Take the time daily to quiet your mind and reconnect with your sensual self (even if it’s while showering or driving without distractions). Make sex fun again by trying something new like an erotic massage or sensual game at (check out www.goddessunleashed.com).

  Ladies, don’t lose touch with your beautiful, feminine essence. Remember, mothers don’t feel sexy, women do. Don’t allow yourself to become a shell of a woman, going through the motions of life. If you feel your sexy self slipping away, resurrect your passionate spirit by making your self and your sex life a TOP priority!

  If you care about your self, if you care about your relationship, put loving your partner back on your radar!