Posts Tagged ‘Sensual Aids’

  • KEEPING THE PASSION ALIVE WITH KISSING – A must in long term relationships!

    Date: 2010.03.06 | Category: Uncategorized | Response: 2


    Remember back when kissing your lover sent tingles down your spin? If passionate kissing for it’s own sake (outside of sex) has become a distant memory, it’s time to resurrect the 20 second kiss!

    Passionate Kissing, outside of foreplay and sex, is one of the first things to go in long term relationships. If your libido needs a lift or if you’re simply feeling too tired to make love, muster up the energy to plant a 20 second kiss on your lover, and enjoy kissing again for it’s own sake.

    The 20 Second Kiss. That’s right, just kiss…hold it….a little longer…mmm…stay with it….mmm….that was really nice!

    When’s the last time you enjoyed kissing for it’s own sake? Your lips and mouth have the second largest number of nerve endings on the human body (clitoris/penis has the most) which make it a hot spot for sensation.

    The mouth is one of the most overlooked erogenous zones in long term relationships as those juicy kisses of courtship turn into thoughtless peck kisses of married life. Oxytocin levels (the “love hormone” that promotes bonding) significantly increase after just 20 seconds of kissing.

    As you kiss, focus on your intention. If you’re preoccupied with your grocery list surely kissing wont be the same as when you’re thinking about how much you love and appreciate the man you’re with.

    Note: If your partner doesn’t kiss you the way you’d like to be kissed SHOW HIM HOW. Every woman likes to be kissed differently, don’t leave him in the dark. Simply say, “Honey, can I show you how I really like to be kissed?” He’ll say, “sure,” (if he declines, you’ve got another problem to deal with). Describe how you like to be kissed, then actually kiss him as you’ve described.

    Viva la kissing!

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